The Hidden Dangers of Dementia
Over the weekend, additional details were released regarding the tragic death of actor Gene Hackman and his wife. It caught our attention because we know the tragic scenario is not an isolated incident, it’s just that most don’t end up on the news.
Why We Need to Talk About it
Dementia is a reality that many families face, yet too often, it is hidden from view as it was in Gene Hackman’s recent story. Dementia is often hidden out of fear, stigma or sheer denial. However, avoiding the conversation does not make the situation better. In fact, it can lead to serious consequences for both the person with dementia and their caregivers.
Caregivers Need Care Too
When caring for a loved one with dementia, it is easy to put yourself and your needs last. Many caregivers neglect their own health, well-being, and social lives, believing they have no other choice or due to the stress they are experiencing. However, without support, burnout is inevitable – leaving both the caregiver and their loved one vulnerable.
Hiding Dementia Does Not Help Anyone
There are countless cases where families try to keep dementia a secret. Some signs are subtle as you can see within the Gene Hackman case.
– Close friends noticing they have not seen a loved one for a while/sometimes years
– No longer seeing people in person/only communicating via text messages or phone calls.
These small details might not seem alarming at first, but they can indicate deeper struggles behind closed doors. When dementia is hidden, it becomes harder to get help – and easier for dangerous situations to develop.
No Back-Up Plan, Big Risk
Despite increased awareness, dementia still carries an outdated stigma. Some see it as a shameful decline rather than the medical condition that it is. Dementia requires care and understanding and should never been seen as shameful. This stigma can sometimes prevent open conversations and delays critical interventions – either regarding care or medical attention. The more we talk about it the more we normalize getting help when help is needed.
Technology Can Help — If We Use It
Simple tools, like in-home cameras or movement sensors, can provide an added layer of security for individuals with dementia. Yet, many homes lack these safeguards, making it harder to monitor health and safety. While privacy is a concern and must be honored, the right balance can provide peace of mind for caregivers while also maintaining dignity for the individual.
It Is Time To Face Dementia Head On
Avoiding the reality of dementia does not make it go away – it only makes it harder to manage. Open conversations, proper planning and support systems are essential. No one should have to face dementia alone, and no caregiver should be left to struggle in silence.
Contact a certified elder law attorney(*), such as Linda Strohschein and her team at Strohschein Law Group for assistance with Long-Term Care Planning. To set up an appointment, contact Strohschein Law Group at 630-300-0627.
This information provided by Strohschein Law Group is general in nature and is not intended to be legal advice, nor does it constitute a legal relationship. Please consult an attorney for advice regarding your individual situation.
(*) The Supreme Court of Illinois does not recognize certifications of specialties in the practice of law and the CELA designation is not a requirement to practice law in Illinois.
Source: USA Today
Thank you to Attorney Julie McCormick of Trinity Elder Law for sharing.